Mistress Kay has been active in the BDSM/Leather lifestyle since 1986.
She has attended many events in the South East and the USA and presented at a few. She started the first Semi Public group in the State of Tennessee People Exchanging Power Tennessee and helping to co-found People Exchanging Power Atlanta. She is active in the Nashville Community where she helps with education and training.
She helped co-found Master And slaves Together Nashville.